There was a question posed recently that stopped me mid-thought and has lingered longer than I expected: We say we are Christian, but are we actually living a Christian life?
Wow. That one hit me hard.
In a small town like ours, it’s not unusual to hear someone say they’re a Christian. Many of us grew up in church. We know the hymns by heart. We can quote a few Bible verses if pressed. We bow our heads before meals and show up on Sunday mornings, coffee in hand and Bible tucked under our arm.
But calling ourselves something and living it out daily are two very different things.
It can be surprisingly easy to wear the label “Christian” while still leading a very worldly life. Easy to say, “Of course I believe,” while our words and actions tell another story. Easy to raise our hands in worship and then lower them just in time to point fingers at someone else. Don’t get me wrong, I’m guilty of some of these too.
And let’s be honest, it’s hard, right?
It’s hard to break old habits. It’s hard to stop cussing when that’s been your language for years. It’s hard to resist gossip when it’s disguised as “concern.” It’s hard not to judge when judging feels justified. It’s hard to choose patience when irritation is quicker. Hard to choose grace when someone doesn’t deserve it.
None of this is easy. But maybe that’s the point.
Following Jesus was never meant to be comfortable or convenient. It was meant to be transformational. If our lives look no different than the world around us, if our conversations never include Him, if our quiet moments never belong to Him, then maybe it’s worth asking ourselves that uncomfortable question again.
Are we living what we say we believe?
Being a Christian isn’t about perfection. It’s about pursuit. It’s about striving every single day to talk about Jesus. Not in a loud, condemning way, but in a loving, natural way. It’s about spending time with Him when no one is watching. Opening the Bible even when we’re tired. Whispering prayers in the car. Choosing kindness when sarcasm would be easier. It’s about becoming more like Him little by little.
In a world that blurs the lines more every year, maybe the greatest witness we can have in our small town isn’t just a bible verse post on your Facebook. Maybe it’s a life that looks different. A life that forgives quickly. Speaks gently. Loves boldly. Repents humbly.
We won’t get it right every day. We’ll still stumble. We’ll still have moments we wish we could take back. But the goal isn’t flawless behavior, it’s faithful obedience.
So yes, that question hit hard. But maybe it needed to. Because being a Christian is more than something we say. It’s something we live.